Speedvision1
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Hi everyone.
I have a rather odd situation. I find alot of information in forums like these as people have alot of knowledge. Here goes my story, a sad one.
I had a girlfriend living with me trying to get on her feet. She was doing well up till this point. Around the forth I woke up to my car peeling out of the driveway and her driving. She is not allowed to drive my car, and so I tried to get ahold of her nothing. Hours went by so I called the police and filed a claim for a stolen vehicle (hard to do to a girl that you have feelings for). I had no choice. She could of hit a kid, or another car etc.
Around 24 hours later I got a call saying the car was parked somewhere in the city about an hour form my home. It was out of gas. I went and picked up my car. It started to overheat but not bad. I stopped and checked coolant etc. On the way home it would go up and down, so I figured there was air in the cooling system, as my car is reverse flow so it is very finicky. Got home and and had a mechanic for a ford delaership take a look at it. I also called and told the police that I had my car back. I explained to them that the car had over heated but appeared to be ok. The mechanic said most likely water pump or fan. I am ok with that and can live with it. I would gladly pay to have these fixed and never talk to this girl again.
But, he said what if you have damage to the engine etc. A blown seal on the motor etc. What if I need a new motor (although he said not likely as it runs ok). So he said to call the insurance company and let them know whats going on. So I did and am waiting to hear from them.
I guess my question is, should I retract my stolen vehicle report from the police? Does it make a difference. I do not want to put this girl in jail necessarily, but if I have extensive damage done, I do not want to pay out of pocket. She would probably willingly admit to stealing the vehicle.
From what I know she drove it about an hour away from my house. Once there she let the vehicle idle for almost 20 hours before it ran out of gas. I am guessing from letting the vehicle idle for so long was really bad for the vehicle.
What should I do? I guess what I am really getting at is do I need to retract the statement claiming the vehicle is back? Again, I do not want to press charges unless there is alot of damage. Then I will have to worry about myself and not her. It is really a hard situation.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I have a rather odd situation. I find alot of information in forums like these as people have alot of knowledge. Here goes my story, a sad one.
I had a girlfriend living with me trying to get on her feet. She was doing well up till this point. Around the forth I woke up to my car peeling out of the driveway and her driving. She is not allowed to drive my car, and so I tried to get ahold of her nothing. Hours went by so I called the police and filed a claim for a stolen vehicle (hard to do to a girl that you have feelings for). I had no choice. She could of hit a kid, or another car etc.
Around 24 hours later I got a call saying the car was parked somewhere in the city about an hour form my home. It was out of gas. I went and picked up my car. It started to overheat but not bad. I stopped and checked coolant etc. On the way home it would go up and down, so I figured there was air in the cooling system, as my car is reverse flow so it is very finicky. Got home and and had a mechanic for a ford delaership take a look at it. I also called and told the police that I had my car back. I explained to them that the car had over heated but appeared to be ok. The mechanic said most likely water pump or fan. I am ok with that and can live with it. I would gladly pay to have these fixed and never talk to this girl again.
But, he said what if you have damage to the engine etc. A blown seal on the motor etc. What if I need a new motor (although he said not likely as it runs ok). So he said to call the insurance company and let them know whats going on. So I did and am waiting to hear from them.
I guess my question is, should I retract my stolen vehicle report from the police? Does it make a difference. I do not want to put this girl in jail necessarily, but if I have extensive damage done, I do not want to pay out of pocket. She would probably willingly admit to stealing the vehicle.
From what I know she drove it about an hour away from my house. Once there she let the vehicle idle for almost 20 hours before it ran out of gas. I am guessing from letting the vehicle idle for so long was really bad for the vehicle.
What should I do? I guess what I am really getting at is do I need to retract the statement claiming the vehicle is back? Again, I do not want to press charges unless there is alot of damage. Then I will have to worry about myself and not her. It is really a hard situation.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.