It doesn't matter whether the doctor tells the person not to worry about it or not. It is a pre-existing condition.
You can't unring a bell.
If I have diabetes, and am on Metformin, then am able to control my blood sugar with diet and exercise, that doesn't mean I no longer have Diabetes. Even if my doctor takes me off the Metformin. I still have diabetes.
What if Charles Manson said, "I used to kill people, but since I've been in jail, I haven't even shanked someone."
Just as teenagers with auto insurance, pre-Medicare age with health insurance is a terrible age. It's what I tell my clients is the "black hole" of health coverage. My advice: Get a high deductible - I mean, really high ($25k with World) until they reach Medicare eligibility. DON'T open an
HSA, just have the high deductible plan.
You may still have the rider, but it would cover anything else that arises. Doctors are not underwriters, and will tell the patients what the patient wants to hear, to avoid a law suit. Getting into a he said, I said, you said, underwriting said situation is dangerous.
DANGER, WILL ROBINSON. WARNING!! WARNING!!
We, as agents, must tell our prospects and clients what they need to hear, not what they want to hear. As much as it may hurt us financially. I'd rather not be someone's agent, and retain their respect (this way, I can still receive referrals).
ETHICS: If you lose any sleep over this, then it is not the right thing to do.
You have to remember, insurance companies don't think logically, they think financially. Your client/prospect is telling you something emotionally. Don't confuse the two. It will get you in trouble.
Just my two cents.