Hey Mark....I fully understand what you are going through. I think we have all had those moments where we questioned why we were doing this and what do we do next.
Here are a few things I've found about the insurance business:
1. Activity is key....as my ex Woodmen state manager said.."You gotta see the people". It took me a while to understand that concept, but I understand it now. Talk, talk, talk to people about what you do. Find creative ways to tell people what you do instead of being just an "Insurance agent".
2. Find creative ways to market yourself. There are ways to do it without spending a lot of money. John has some great ideas on how to use fliers and working
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3. Ask for referrals. I know some of the guys here say they don't like to do that, but that same Woodmen State manager I used to work for would do it in a heartbeat. He would lean in on the table and say, "Mr/Ms Customer....I need your help. I need five names of people you know who could benefit from our products and service."....then he would sit back and wait for them to respond. He literally would not leave until he had some names. Rarely did I ever see a negative response from the client. It's almost like they felt obligated to do this...or they knew he wouldn't leave until they did. Ask for referrals...there is nothing shameful in asking for them.
4. Strive to get as many "no's" as you possibly can. Yea...I know you guys are saying "huh"? If you are asking for their business all they can say is no, right? Out of 10 no's, what if someone says yes? I read a story about a manager with a big captive company was dealing with a period of slow production. He asked all his agents one day to knock on at a minimum of 60 doors in one day's time and ask this question...."You don't want to buy any insurance do you?" Now, what a ridiculous question, right? However, they found that ever so often someone said "you know, actually I do...come on in". The moral of that story is it's a numbers game.
5. Have fun. This is a relationship business. If it weren't, we shouldn't receive renewals....right? The most successful agents I've ever seen worked hard at building long term relationships by being "THE MAN" when it came to buying insurance. I once read where you need 100 loyal paying clients and from that 100 you build your business. That makes a lot of sense.
Anyway....that's just a few insights of my own...some borrowed....some not. Like Zig says...this is a noble profession. If you believe that and believe in your product the sky is the limit.