I did not imply it was his only concern.
But you did. Or at the very least you implied this was more of a concern than him being alive or worried about his family. That's what I've gathered from your posts and I feel like I'm not the only one. That may not have been your intention, but that is the way it came across.
His situation sounds bad. This again if it was me, who pays is not even in the top 1000 things I would be concerned about. I would be doing lots of other things in life including not reading or posting on this forum, but that is me.
This very comment is what I'm talking about. It comes off as judgemental. I guess we all can't be as good as you my man.