I started these threads so that newbs and journeymen of the craft can pick up the best gems without combing 20 some pages. They are arranged in no particular way, although towards the end I started to differentiate them into three classes, General FE knowledge (which is this thread), FE leads and prospecting, and Objections, which I did not adhere to. I might come back and clean up the thread and organize it, but for now it will be a treasure of gems ready for the willing to go through.
Special thanks (in no particular order) to:
Frank Stasny, Jdeasy, Newby, Greg, Dhk, Todd, xrac, reardon, ob1kanobee, mustfastpitch, jmatos, rousemark, Mark, Bob Levine etc. Sorry If I didn't include you, if you find you contributed to these gems, let me know and I will include the name.
Final Expense
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Did you ask her (after your warm-up) "does anyone else need to be present in order for her to make a decision today"? If she is not married, this would include a friend or relative.
I always emphasize "today" 2 to 3 times. If they say they aren't buying anything today that is a fairly easy one to get around but I want them to know if they see value I'm asking for a commitment today, not tomorrow or 6 months from now. I stopped doing that crap recently and I'm doing more of a hard close now. I'm done with being a conversationalist with some of these people. I tell them straight up from the beginning "this is not a I want to think about it decision". I can tell you that when people know you aren't going to hear them when they say "I want to think about it", you will not get that objection much anymore.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
May or may not have made a difference in this situation, but I try to always make it a practice to ask up front...
Mrs. Jones, If we can find a plan that you qualify for, meets your needs and meets your budget - can I obtain a policy for you today?
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
I would have gone back for my paper work after the warm up, and before I started the presentation.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Mrs. Jones this is not a I want to think about it decision. If we can find a plan that you qualify for, meets your needs and your your budget and YOU SEE THE VALUE, I'm going to do my part and obtain a policy for you today. DOES THAT SOUND FAIR ENOUGH"?
(it's important you tell them AND YOU SEE THE VALUE and ask this exact question......IS THAT FAIR ENOUGH?)
By doing this you have planted seeds. Most importantly the need to act in either a yes or no answer instead of this "I need to think about it" response. You have to remove that with every customer or else you are going to get that a lot and I don't know about you but I can't stand it.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Remind her the budget is good, she qualifies and she sees the value. "Ms. Jones, a little while ago we established that this was a decision you make today remember? I'm here today and today is as close as you have ever come or will ever come to obtaining this protection for you and your family."
If that doesn't work, then go back through it again. "Ms. Jones, I've been doing this for a long time. In my experience it's always a few things that have someone sitting on the fence. The money, they don't understand it completely or they feel they don't need it or don't see the value. Well I know and you know you need it and you want it. I feel the premium is within your budget. What is it you feel I might not have explained well enough"? (smoke it out)
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
As for statements about what and how to say things, I NEVER say does thais "sound " good, great wonderful or anything.
It all "sounds" good. If I explain something I ask, "does that mke sense?". When presenting prices I ask, "does this fit your budget?".
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
A lot of folks don't beleive in "power phrases but they do work and one that I found to be effective for me over the years is, "you be the SOLE judge".. In other s words it is your opinion, nor mine that counts. One other suggestion that I would make is use as few 'insurance" words as possible, ie "policy" I would substitute 'protection" or a similar word. The prospect does not care about a policy but they do want "protection". Borrowing from you, I would alter it to say, " If we can find a plan that you qualify for, meets your needs and your your budget and YOU SEE THE VALUE, YOU BE THE SOLE JUDGE, I'm going to do my part and obtain PROTECTION for you today. DOES THAT SOUND FAIR ENOUGH"?
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Not sole judge, but I do say, "you have to do what's best for you, not what's best for me, what's best for the insurance company or anyone else, do what's best for you".
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
1. Price During the interview, establish a price commitment. "Mrs. Jones, if I could show you plan that would do what you want it to do, what could you set aside each month? " Normally, you are going to get a, 'I don't know" and you would respond with an outrageous high number, "$500 per month?".."no way".."How about $5" .. "Maybe" Well, somewhere between those two numbers is a reasonable number" Let's figure out what it might be." If the number is $40 you develop a plan in that range, if they object to the price at closing, you gently remind them that that was the number they chose.
2. Have to speak with my family.. befroe getting into the fact finding and proposal process ask, "Mrs. Jones, is there anybody else that need to be present while we speak or do you make decisions on your own?"
3. Not Interested .. If this is true, most of the time you are going to find that out before you ever get to closing. If it is just a stall, that is what the sales process is all about.. sparking interest and encouraging action.
4. I don't care what they do with me. If this is really true and a person is that selfish, there is not a lot you can do. if it is a stall, then, "Mrs. Jones, I agree with you. I don't care what they do with me either. If they throw me in a ditch and cover me up, that is fine. But while I don't care, my loved ones do and I don't want to leave an additional burden on them. Lord knows that in these hard times, they are struggling enough just to get by without having to pay for my burial and final expenses." (note: most older folks always think times are hard no matter what)
5. I have to think about it.. See 0b1kanobee's post on this one. Establish a commitment at the beginning of the fact finding.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
I use a line that my mentor tells me to use every time people get objections from family members or friends.
Either ask if they are a doctor or a professional position, then when they say no ask if they will let them do brain surgery on them. If they say no, ask them why. They will say because they are not specialized or a professional. Then you go exactly, unless your (family member with objection) is a insurance professional, why would you listen to them, did they study it or have training? Why would you take advice from a non professional.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Just remeber that the "or do you make decisions on your own" is the key phrase. If you just ask if anyone else needs to be present, they may give it some thought and come up with someone. But the last part is a challenge. Most of us old folks don't want to think that we have surrendered our independence and are at the mercy of letting someone else make decision for us. If you wait until the end of the presentation and they say they need to talk it over with someone, you can't ask them, "can't you make your own decisions?" without being offensive .. But by doing it up front, it comes across that you are concerned about what they think.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Whenever I hear an objection I agree with the objection and then I pretend I never heard that objection and carry on with my presentation.
If I hear one, and only one, objection over and over then I know that objection is real and not some sort of put-off. Otherwise I'll probably hear 3-5 different objections..which means they are just put-offs.
If I was working this lead with the situation you described I would plan on staying another 30 min. for sure, unless I had another appointment coming up very shortly.
I'd 1st need to find out who Ms. Jones was talking to on the phone when I went out to my car. I might casually say "what that my supervisor checking up on me?" in a joking tone. Now Ms. Jones will say something like "that was my sister calling asking who you were", etc.
Now Ms. Jones and I are going to get back into an easy going conversation about anything except talking about her buying a policy. Kinda warming her up again. Gradually I'd start talking about the issues we agreed upon earlier before her phone call......about leaving a check to her family to pay her burial/final expenses.
I'd also say again "Ms. Jones, down the road when the good lord calls you home, whose responsibility is it to have that $$/policy on hand to pay for your funeral, yours or your childrens? Ms. Jones is going to say it's her responsibility. And I'll say "I understand but why do you feel it's your responsibility...why wouldn't you want to leave that burden for your children to worry about?" Ms. Jones usually says it's her responsibilty, her children have their own lives to live, etc., etc.
Now Ms. Jones is telling me why she needs the policy, rather than me telling her why she needs the policy. Just what I want.
Now I'll start putting ink on the app. I'll say "Ms. Jones did you want that check to go to your children equally or did you have one in particular in mind to handle your final arrangements"? Which ever she says I immediately start filling in the bene. on her app. Next "does your mail come here or to a PO Box?" and I'll write that on her app. "And your 1st name is spelled Bessie right? Etc., etc. filling in the app.
If Ms. Jones stops me and says to call her back in June I'll say "I'd love to but I'm afraid I can't. You see I'll be in a different part of the state helping other families out. The enrollment period is when I'm in your home or neighborhood, which is right now". "Now did you want us to bill your bank on the 5th or the 10th"? And keep right on writing up the app. THIS IS CLOSING!
When you've finished and collected her check....offer her check back. Say "Ms. Jones, if you're not satisfied I want you to take your check back". She'll never take the check back and she'll say something like "go ahead and send it on off". When I did it about 6-7 yrs. in the field no one ever took their check back.
Common Objections
Common Objections
Assuming you have had a few objections and now they say "I need to think about it".
My response:
Mr. and Mrs. Jones, I have been doing this for a long time, meeting with folks just like yourself and I can tell you that right now is the closest you will ever come to making this decision. The worst thing that can happen is a decline of coverage. NOW is the best time to give it a try. (then shut up..........maybe slide a pen and app their way)
Not a Bad FE Day.
Not a Bad FE Day.
There are many approaches on the form you can choose form if you do a search. I simply appraoched them with, Hi I'm with RIS. I assume you have heard about the high cost of living these days but have you ever given any thought to the high cost of dying? Doesn't matter if they answer yes or no, if they answer at all, you have an opening for a conversation. ....... Do you know of anyone who had make arrangements for a loved one's funeral? Was it expensive?. Are you aware that the funeral home bill is only a fraction of the true cost.? Can we step in and let me share with you what has proven to be of benefit to other people that might be of benefit to you and your family? (if no.. then)If this is not a good time, let's set an appoitnment for another day.. Tuesday mornings or Thursday afternoons better for you? In 40 years have only had 3 doors slammed in my face and that didn't hurt much at all!
Addressing hidden objections
Addressing hidden objections
Thought this would be a good topic. After I get a rapport with my prospects I always ask what their largest concerns are. We take a lot for granted as agents and falsely assume our clients understand the process. Here are main concerns bought up by my prospects that they would have never voiced had I not asked:
1) "I really don't want to take a physical." You'd be surprised by the number of your prospects who assume they need to take a physical. If this isn't addressed you could be losing a deal over nothing.
2) "I know underwriting takes months." Another misconception by some people is underwriting takes forever.
3) "I really don't want to apply and get declined." Even perfectly healthy people are very apprehensive about applying for coverage.
4) "I don't want to switch doctors." One of the 1st things I do with any prospect is run a network search. "Let's make sure your doctors take the plan" alleviates a lot of concern.
5) "You're gonna sign me up, then drop off the face of the planet like my last agent." It's important to go over your services. I send E-newsletters to all my my clients and go over my newsletter with my prospects. When they know I'll be in monthly contact with them fears about getting "slammed" are gone.
6) "I know there's a hidden fee in here somewhere." MANY clients are greatly confused about how we're compensated. If they think there's a fee coming that could be a major reason for no returned calls. I always go over the fact that I'm compensated by the carriers, never by my clients directly.
The bottom line is if you're not addressing these items with your clients you're likely losing a lot of deals.
Consider this market during our current recessionary times. When given the options of either paying for their funeral by pulling money from their widow's or widower's savings, charging the cost of a funeral to a credit card, or by paying monthly life insurance premiums now on a discounted, income tax-free, lay-away plan, you can see that a final expense insurance policy becomes an optimal choice.
I go over Globe/AARP Term products, ROP Mutual of Omaha and Colonial Penn products when framing the reasons for the superiority of my WL products.
For the Term Products...
-"Do you plan on kicking the bucket BEFORE 80 or AFTER 80?"
-"What good's insurance... if it's not there when you need it?"
For the ROP WL Products...
-"MoO and CP = Sick people's insurance -- God bless them, because they're terminally ill, they CAN get insurance. And because they can, everyone including you is put on a 2-year waiting period."
Re: Globe and AARP - my response is usually something like "Would you rather pay less for something that MIGHT be there when you pass, or pay more for something that WILL be there?".
Special thanks (in no particular order) to:
Frank Stasny, Jdeasy, Newby, Greg, Dhk, Todd, xrac, reardon, ob1kanobee, mustfastpitch, jmatos, rousemark, Mark, Bob Levine etc. Sorry If I didn't include you, if you find you contributed to these gems, let me know and I will include the name.
Final Expense
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Did you ask her (after your warm-up) "does anyone else need to be present in order for her to make a decision today"? If she is not married, this would include a friend or relative.
I always emphasize "today" 2 to 3 times. If they say they aren't buying anything today that is a fairly easy one to get around but I want them to know if they see value I'm asking for a commitment today, not tomorrow or 6 months from now. I stopped doing that crap recently and I'm doing more of a hard close now. I'm done with being a conversationalist with some of these people. I tell them straight up from the beginning "this is not a I want to think about it decision". I can tell you that when people know you aren't going to hear them when they say "I want to think about it", you will not get that objection much anymore.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
May or may not have made a difference in this situation, but I try to always make it a practice to ask up front...
Mrs. Jones, If we can find a plan that you qualify for, meets your needs and meets your budget - can I obtain a policy for you today?
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
I would have gone back for my paper work after the warm up, and before I started the presentation.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Mrs. Jones this is not a I want to think about it decision. If we can find a plan that you qualify for, meets your needs and your your budget and YOU SEE THE VALUE, I'm going to do my part and obtain a policy for you today. DOES THAT SOUND FAIR ENOUGH"?
(it's important you tell them AND YOU SEE THE VALUE and ask this exact question......IS THAT FAIR ENOUGH?)
By doing this you have planted seeds. Most importantly the need to act in either a yes or no answer instead of this "I need to think about it" response. You have to remove that with every customer or else you are going to get that a lot and I don't know about you but I can't stand it.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Remind her the budget is good, she qualifies and she sees the value. "Ms. Jones, a little while ago we established that this was a decision you make today remember? I'm here today and today is as close as you have ever come or will ever come to obtaining this protection for you and your family."
If that doesn't work, then go back through it again. "Ms. Jones, I've been doing this for a long time. In my experience it's always a few things that have someone sitting on the fence. The money, they don't understand it completely or they feel they don't need it or don't see the value. Well I know and you know you need it and you want it. I feel the premium is within your budget. What is it you feel I might not have explained well enough"? (smoke it out)
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
As for statements about what and how to say things, I NEVER say does thais "sound " good, great wonderful or anything.
It all "sounds" good. If I explain something I ask, "does that mke sense?". When presenting prices I ask, "does this fit your budget?".
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
A lot of folks don't beleive in "power phrases but they do work and one that I found to be effective for me over the years is, "you be the SOLE judge".. In other s words it is your opinion, nor mine that counts. One other suggestion that I would make is use as few 'insurance" words as possible, ie "policy" I would substitute 'protection" or a similar word. The prospect does not care about a policy but they do want "protection". Borrowing from you, I would alter it to say, " If we can find a plan that you qualify for, meets your needs and your your budget and YOU SEE THE VALUE, YOU BE THE SOLE JUDGE, I'm going to do my part and obtain PROTECTION for you today. DOES THAT SOUND FAIR ENOUGH"?
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Not sole judge, but I do say, "you have to do what's best for you, not what's best for me, what's best for the insurance company or anyone else, do what's best for you".
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
1. Price During the interview, establish a price commitment. "Mrs. Jones, if I could show you plan that would do what you want it to do, what could you set aside each month? " Normally, you are going to get a, 'I don't know" and you would respond with an outrageous high number, "$500 per month?".."no way".."How about $5" .. "Maybe" Well, somewhere between those two numbers is a reasonable number" Let's figure out what it might be." If the number is $40 you develop a plan in that range, if they object to the price at closing, you gently remind them that that was the number they chose.
2. Have to speak with my family.. befroe getting into the fact finding and proposal process ask, "Mrs. Jones, is there anybody else that need to be present while we speak or do you make decisions on your own?"
3. Not Interested .. If this is true, most of the time you are going to find that out before you ever get to closing. If it is just a stall, that is what the sales process is all about.. sparking interest and encouraging action.
4. I don't care what they do with me. If this is really true and a person is that selfish, there is not a lot you can do. if it is a stall, then, "Mrs. Jones, I agree with you. I don't care what they do with me either. If they throw me in a ditch and cover me up, that is fine. But while I don't care, my loved ones do and I don't want to leave an additional burden on them. Lord knows that in these hard times, they are struggling enough just to get by without having to pay for my burial and final expenses." (note: most older folks always think times are hard no matter what)
5. I have to think about it.. See 0b1kanobee's post on this one. Establish a commitment at the beginning of the fact finding.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
I use a line that my mentor tells me to use every time people get objections from family members or friends.
Either ask if they are a doctor or a professional position, then when they say no ask if they will let them do brain surgery on them. If they say no, ask them why. They will say because they are not specialized or a professional. Then you go exactly, unless your (family member with objection) is a insurance professional, why would you listen to them, did they study it or have training? Why would you take advice from a non professional.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Just remeber that the "or do you make decisions on your own" is the key phrase. If you just ask if anyone else needs to be present, they may give it some thought and come up with someone. But the last part is a challenge. Most of us old folks don't want to think that we have surrendered our independence and are at the mercy of letting someone else make decision for us. If you wait until the end of the presentation and they say they need to talk it over with someone, you can't ask them, "can't you make your own decisions?" without being offensive .. But by doing it up front, it comes across that you are concerned about what they think.
Family Objection??
Family Objection??
Whenever I hear an objection I agree with the objection and then I pretend I never heard that objection and carry on with my presentation.
If I hear one, and only one, objection over and over then I know that objection is real and not some sort of put-off. Otherwise I'll probably hear 3-5 different objections..which means they are just put-offs.
If I was working this lead with the situation you described I would plan on staying another 30 min. for sure, unless I had another appointment coming up very shortly.
I'd 1st need to find out who Ms. Jones was talking to on the phone when I went out to my car. I might casually say "what that my supervisor checking up on me?" in a joking tone. Now Ms. Jones will say something like "that was my sister calling asking who you were", etc.
Now Ms. Jones and I are going to get back into an easy going conversation about anything except talking about her buying a policy. Kinda warming her up again. Gradually I'd start talking about the issues we agreed upon earlier before her phone call......about leaving a check to her family to pay her burial/final expenses.
I'd also say again "Ms. Jones, down the road when the good lord calls you home, whose responsibility is it to have that $$/policy on hand to pay for your funeral, yours or your childrens? Ms. Jones is going to say it's her responsibility. And I'll say "I understand but why do you feel it's your responsibility...why wouldn't you want to leave that burden for your children to worry about?" Ms. Jones usually says it's her responsibilty, her children have their own lives to live, etc., etc.
Now Ms. Jones is telling me why she needs the policy, rather than me telling her why she needs the policy. Just what I want.
Now I'll start putting ink on the app. I'll say "Ms. Jones did you want that check to go to your children equally or did you have one in particular in mind to handle your final arrangements"? Which ever she says I immediately start filling in the bene. on her app. Next "does your mail come here or to a PO Box?" and I'll write that on her app. "And your 1st name is spelled Bessie right? Etc., etc. filling in the app.
If Ms. Jones stops me and says to call her back in June I'll say "I'd love to but I'm afraid I can't. You see I'll be in a different part of the state helping other families out. The enrollment period is when I'm in your home or neighborhood, which is right now". "Now did you want us to bill your bank on the 5th or the 10th"? And keep right on writing up the app. THIS IS CLOSING!
When you've finished and collected her check....offer her check back. Say "Ms. Jones, if you're not satisfied I want you to take your check back". She'll never take the check back and she'll say something like "go ahead and send it on off". When I did it about 6-7 yrs. in the field no one ever took their check back.
Common Objections
Common Objections
Assuming you have had a few objections and now they say "I need to think about it".
My response:
Mr. and Mrs. Jones, I have been doing this for a long time, meeting with folks just like yourself and I can tell you that right now is the closest you will ever come to making this decision. The worst thing that can happen is a decline of coverage. NOW is the best time to give it a try. (then shut up..........maybe slide a pen and app their way)
Not a Bad FE Day.
Not a Bad FE Day.
There are many approaches on the form you can choose form if you do a search. I simply appraoched them with, Hi I'm with RIS. I assume you have heard about the high cost of living these days but have you ever given any thought to the high cost of dying? Doesn't matter if they answer yes or no, if they answer at all, you have an opening for a conversation. ....... Do you know of anyone who had make arrangements for a loved one's funeral? Was it expensive?. Are you aware that the funeral home bill is only a fraction of the true cost.? Can we step in and let me share with you what has proven to be of benefit to other people that might be of benefit to you and your family? (if no.. then)If this is not a good time, let's set an appoitnment for another day.. Tuesday mornings or Thursday afternoons better for you? In 40 years have only had 3 doors slammed in my face and that didn't hurt much at all!
Addressing hidden objections
Addressing hidden objections
Thought this would be a good topic. After I get a rapport with my prospects I always ask what their largest concerns are. We take a lot for granted as agents and falsely assume our clients understand the process. Here are main concerns bought up by my prospects that they would have never voiced had I not asked:
1) "I really don't want to take a physical." You'd be surprised by the number of your prospects who assume they need to take a physical. If this isn't addressed you could be losing a deal over nothing.
2) "I know underwriting takes months." Another misconception by some people is underwriting takes forever.
3) "I really don't want to apply and get declined." Even perfectly healthy people are very apprehensive about applying for coverage.
4) "I don't want to switch doctors." One of the 1st things I do with any prospect is run a network search. "Let's make sure your doctors take the plan" alleviates a lot of concern.
5) "You're gonna sign me up, then drop off the face of the planet like my last agent." It's important to go over your services. I send E-newsletters to all my my clients and go over my newsletter with my prospects. When they know I'll be in monthly contact with them fears about getting "slammed" are gone.
6) "I know there's a hidden fee in here somewhere." MANY clients are greatly confused about how we're compensated. If they think there's a fee coming that could be a major reason for no returned calls. I always go over the fact that I'm compensated by the carriers, never by my clients directly.
The bottom line is if you're not addressing these items with your clients you're likely losing a lot of deals.
Consider this market during our current recessionary times. When given the options of either paying for their funeral by pulling money from their widow's or widower's savings, charging the cost of a funeral to a credit card, or by paying monthly life insurance premiums now on a discounted, income tax-free, lay-away plan, you can see that a final expense insurance policy becomes an optimal choice.
I go over Globe/AARP Term products, ROP Mutual of Omaha and Colonial Penn products when framing the reasons for the superiority of my WL products.
For the Term Products...
-"Do you plan on kicking the bucket BEFORE 80 or AFTER 80?"
-"What good's insurance... if it's not there when you need it?"
For the ROP WL Products...
-"MoO and CP = Sick people's insurance -- God bless them, because they're terminally ill, they CAN get insurance. And because they can, everyone including you is put on a 2-year waiting period."
Re: Globe and AARP - my response is usually something like "Would you rather pay less for something that MIGHT be there when you pass, or pay more for something that WILL be there?".
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