I wouldn't read too much into the supposed racist comment. That's just how some folks talk. At least I wouldn't take it that way, not even a little bit.
p.s.- At least she told you she wanted some insurance from the get-go. How many leads never even lead to a discussion of life insurance?
p.s.- At least she told you she wanted some insurance from the get-go. How many leads never even lead to a discussion of life insurance?